top of page


Nicole Archa — Spirituality Resources for Women
Your Favorite Womanhood Coach Helping You Get Your House In Order One Prayer At A Time
Search


The Rise of the "Pick Me" Woman: Embracing Love and Catering to Our Partners
In recent years, there has been a noticeable shift in the dynamics of relationships, particularly among women. Gone are the days of rigid...
Nicole Archa
Mar 18, 2024


Embracing Authenticity: Unlocking Your True Self for a Fulfilling Life
In a world that often pressures us to conform and fit into predefined roles, embracing authenticity is essential for living a fulfilling...
Nicole Archa
May 14, 2023


Embracing Self-Care and Personal Growth: Nurturing Yourself on the Journey to Finding a Life Partner
https://youtu.be/-p8uvk0W-mA While seeking a life partner, it's important to prioritize self-care and personal growth. Embracing...
Nicole Archa
May 14, 2023


How do black women remain confident in a white-controlled world?
<p>This question would not needed to be asked, if slavery was not the law of the land. Bottom line the Black Female is the most powerful being on Earth. That is why she is placed at the bottom. The purpose of the Willie Lynch stories, and all the lies our once slaved minded grandparents taught … <a href="https://mrsqueenminded.wordpress.com/2017/05/18/how-do-black-women-remain-confident-in-a-white-controlled-world/" class="more-link">Continue reading<span class="screen
Nicole Archa
May 18, 2017


Bigger Person
<p>A true heart felt apology …Listen, I know I would have a hard time finding someone to treat me better than you do. But the truth of the matter is I took you for granted. Somewhere down the line we have stopped respecting each other. Which made us stop remembering why we wanted each other … <a href="https://mrsqueenminded.wordpress.com/2017/04/24/bigger-person/" class="more-link">Continue reading<span class="screen-reader-text"> “Bigger Person”</s
Nicole Archa
Apr 24, 2017


Black Heart Jewels
<p>Omg, I can’t believe the words you say. Is there any thought behind all those malicious words you say. I guess now you finish all that yelling, and telling our business to the street. Now sit your hateful ass down and listen to me. You can keep your black hearted jewels when you feeling some … <a href="https://mrsqueenminded.wordpress.com/2016/05/13/black-heart-jewels/" class="more-link">Continue reading<span class="screen-reader-text"> “Black Heart Jewe
Nicole Archa
May 13, 2016


A Mother’s Day Gift
<p>We deserve to feel good about ourselves. The only way we can do that is to get up and do something. Anything is better than nothing at all… but only pertaining to exercise. Cause we don’t settle…My health tip for today… Big girls especially listen the hardest part of losing weight is exercise. Any movement … <a href="https://mrsqueenminded.wordpress.com/2016/05/08/a-mothers-day-gift/" class="more-link">Continue reading<span class="screen-
Nicole Archa
May 8, 2016


I miss you
<p>Thank you for making the decision to love me. I know that you had clue about the drama you were getting yourself into. You made the choice to give up your dreams to give me the opportunity to live mine. I know that since we hardly speak you didn’t know I felt that way. I … <a href="https://mrsqueenminded.wordpress.com/2016/05/07/i-miss-you/" class="more-link">Continue reading<span class="screen-reader-text"> “I miss you”</span></a></p>
Nicole Archa
May 7, 2016


Tit for Tat
<p>Tit for Tat Tit for Tat… We all know what this means. You do wrong to me… I am going to get you back. Now we all know that Wrath is a sin, but who cares, right. Just to feel better it’s has got to go down, right? Wrong. When people do you wrong, the … <a href="https://mrsqueenminded.wordpress.com/2016/05/07/tit-for-tat/" class="more-link">Continue reading<span class="screen-reader-text"> “Tit for Tat”</span></a></p>
Nicole Archa
May 6, 2016


What child!!!
<p>Yeah, I heard your words but you really don’t understand. I mean a women like me… well hell I need a man. I can make yall smile, laugh, and giggle. Who gone make mommy tickle. I now see the error of my ways having yall exposed to all my troubled ways. And from the words … <a href="https://mrsqueenminded.wordpress.com/2016/05/05/what-child/" class="more-link">Continue reading<span class="screen-reader-text"> “What child!!!”</span></a></p>
Nicole Archa
May 4, 2016


Momma… leave him alone, please
<p>Momma please leave him alone. Since you moved him in our house, you are not the same. You don’t spend time with us no more. You don’t have time to make sure we have what we need. The only thing important to you is his drink and his weed. We see and hear how he … <a href="https://mrsqueenminded.wordpress.com/2016/05/05/momma-leave-him-alone-please/" class="more-link">Continue reading<span class="screen-reader-text"> “Momma… leave him alo
Nicole Archa
May 4, 2016


The Friend Zone
<p>Ladies, we have a growing trend of having “friend with benefits.” I personally have alway made it a rule not to have close male friends. Guys this applies to you also. One of the benefits of being in a relationship is to have one person to have sex with. If someone wants to be a … <a href="https://mrsqueenminded.wordpress.com/2016/05/04/the-friend-zone/" class="more-link">Continue reading<span class="screen-reader-text"> “The Friend Zon
Nicole Archa
May 4, 2016


Love
<p>My definition of Love is… the constant assessment of someone elses needs. You may need to read it again. I love this definition becuase it eliminates a lot of obstacles that could keep you form loving your partner correctly. If you are loving your partnet you will not have time entertain your friends all the … <a href="https://mrsqueenminded.wordpress.com/2016/05/03/love/" class="more-link">Continue reading<span class="screen-reader-text"> “Love”</
Nicole Archa
May 3, 2016


Loyalty
<p>Loyalty is not just a word to throw around. Having loyalty means you support the well being of a person. Be loyalty to yourself first. Be real with your words and action. Loyalty is not leaving just because shit go left. Loyalty is not ignoring my calls when you know I need you. If your … <a href="https://mrsqueenminded.wordpress.com/2016/05/03/loyalty/" class="more-link">Continue reading<span class="screen-reader-text"> “Loyalty”</span></a></p>
Nicole Archa
May 3, 2016


Know Your Role
<p>Know your role. If you want a man. Listen, you can not be a princess, or a female. Men like Women. Women who want a man but don’t need a man. A women who can take instructions and give them. A women who don’t mind giving her last. A women who knows when his friend … <a href="https://mrsqueenminded.wordpress.com/2016/05/03/know-your-role/" class="more-link">Continue reading<span class="screen-reader-text"> “Know Your Role”</span></a></p>
Nicole Archa
May 3, 2016


A New Day
<p>This is a new day. We are the women of a new time. We must put away grandma’s teaching. We must open our eyes and awaken the inner Princesses and Queens. Be strong, Confident, Honest and Loyal to ourselves, then others. That way we can evolve in to our next phase.</p>
Nicole Archa
May 2, 2016


Look Deeper
<p>Just like men, women sometimes can’t see the forest for the trees. If your man is making an effort, help him out. Let him know you appreciate his efforts. Also pay attention to him and listen to him. He will tell you what he wants just like we tell them.</p>
Nicole Archa
May 2, 2016


Growth
<p>Sometimes in order to here God’s voice you need to be alone. As you grow mentally a lot of relationships you have will end. Not because you don’t like them but because you have to grow, and they can’t. Once you realize you have out grown them, it is not for you to dumb yourself … <a href="https://mrsqueenminded.wordpress.com/2016/05/02/growth/" class="more-link">Continue reading<span class="screen-reader-text"> “Growth”</span></a></p>
Nicole Archa
May 2, 2016
bottom of page